Silicon Valley Women in HR...& Friends Mailing and Event Announcement

Dear Friends,

How are you?  It's already August and I don't know how the time flew!

If you strictly want information about our next event, please look at the links to the right and go to Event Registration.  Before you go, please check out the links at the bottom of this page. 

Many thanks to Karen Duffy, Galina Karpinska, SPHR-CA and Margaret Almeida for planning last month's networking party.  I was delayed so badly in traffic that I missed it, and I was so sorry!  I heard from several people how much fun they had and that new friendships were forming.  We really appreciate the space Lori Baerenstecher of Filice Insurance provided and for Filice's warm hospitality.

I have a personal update:  I'm working on another book and you're invited to help.  I have written two books: "Recruiters on Recruiting" and "Strained Relations: Help for Struggling Parents of Troubled Teens."  (Available on websites or in-person; I've always got books in the trunk.)

For around four years, I've been thinking about producing two more, and I'm starting to work on one with the topic "here's what happened at work - you won't believe it" stories from HR professionals and employment lawyers.  These can be funny stories, the "OMG!" events, anything you think would be interesting, surprising and of value to others.  You can participate electronically or by personal interview, and you can use your own name or I can make up a name for you.  Please see my site for details; I hope to hear from you!

I'm relieved and grateful to tell you we have spaces for our events this year.  Next year - that's a whole other topic!  Please start thinking now if your company can commit to hosting us a couple of times next year.

This is a reminder that I am going to move us away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  This will be a gradual change on the technical side.  More people are using LinkedIn than the forum at this point, and it has been challenging to register people, help them through password problems and other maintenance issues.  It served a great purpose for a long time, and it was all my husband's idea.  Bill is an Electrical Engineer but he learned some code, set up our board, and taught me how to update and maintain it.  Many people have posted resumes, jobs and events over the years, and I know a lot of people found work as a result.  It honestly makes me very happy and proud to know it was so successful.  Thank you, Bill!

1. HR Women and Friends Event: 8/20/2014 with Patricia Stokke

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1. HR Women and Friends Event: 8/20/2014 with Patricia Stokke.  Her topic is "Integrating a Global Perspective Into the Organization."  Please click on the registration tab for details and to RSVP.  I hope you're able to attend!

2. Discounts and Offers – view them on our discount page. Thanks to everyone for extending the discounts to our group!

3. We have a Forum at www.ourhrsite.com/forum. I am moving away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  On the Forum, you can view messages without registering. It’s your responsibility to keep track of your user name and password, and if you change email addresses, please log in and update your profile. If privacy is an issue, please be careful when you post anything: use a separate email if necessary and you can skip your street address if you’d like.

4. SPAM Filter Alert: please add mstein@ourhrsite.com to your address book.

5. To change your email address, click here and go to the correct form.

6. Unsubscribe: To discontinue mailings please respond with "UNSUBSCRIBE" in the subject line or go to the form. If you receive mail at more than one email address, please note all addresses to delete.

7. Potential Speakers/Topics. Please see http://ourhrsite.blogspot.com/p/potential-speakers.html for details and a form to submit your information.  This will be reviewed during the January 2015 meeting.

8. Notifying us of upcoming events and discounts. If you email me right after I’ve sent a mailing, I can update the website, but I can’t send a separate mailing to the group. It will be in the next mailing.Because of my commitments I can’t mentor you, and please don’t send me unsolicited resumes. Come to an event and meet someone who can help. I receive a lot of unsolicited resumes (from our group and strangers) and I refer people to our LinkedIn Group. See the blog post for more thoughts. http://marciastein.blogspot.com/2009/02/setting-boundaries-and-professionalism.html

We have a page on our site for advertising with links to Amazon products. Our site also has Google ads, and you're welcome to click on relevant links. These links provide a small amount of money to help pay for our domain.

I hope to see you soon.

All the best,

Marcia

Marcia Stein, PHR - www.linkedin.com/in/marciastein
Author: "Strained Relations: Help for Struggling Parents of Troubled Teens" and "Recruiters on Recruiting"
Blog: http://helpingparentsofteens.blogspot.com/ 

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Silicon Valley Women in HR...& Friends Mailing and Event Announcement

Dear Friends,

How are you?  How's your summer?

If you strictly want information about our next event, please look at the links to the right and go to Event Registration.  Before you go, please check out the links at the bottom of this page. 

Many thanks to Patricia Stokke for planning and introducing "Your Voice, Your Feminine Power, Your Job" with Lynn Kirkham.  What an interesting and refreshing way to examine our communication style.  

There used to be a common expression, "It's not what you know, it's who you know," and today's equivalent is all about your network.  The best way to build a good network is to introduce yourself, build a conversation about what the other person does/wants and what you do/want and how you might help each other.

We occasionally have events dedicated to networking and this month's event should be FUN!  Our volunteers have worked to find a new location, plan games, and it'll even be catered.  Space is limited to the first 50 people, so please RSVP if you are going.  I realize this is the same day as HR Star, and it's a great time to not have heavy-duty topics.  I hope you can come.

We found spaces for most of our events this year, but we still need a place for the 8/20/2014 event with Patricia Stokke.  Her topic is "Integrating a Global Perspective Into the Organization."  Can you help us find a location in the South Bay?  Ideally, someplace between North San Jose and Palo Alto near 101 would be great.  If you have a lead or you can provide space, please email mstein@ourhrsite.com.

This is a reminder that I am going to move us away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  This will be a gradual change on the technical side.  More people are using LinkedIn than the forum at this point, and it has been challenging to register people, help them through password problems and other maintenance issues.  It served a great purpose for a long time, and it was all my husband's idea.  Bill is an Electrical Engineer but he learned some code, set up our board, and taught me how to update and maintain it.  Many people have posted resumes, jobs and events over the years, and I know a lot of people found work as a result.  It honestly makes me very happy and proud to know it was so successful.  Thank you, Bill!

1. HR Women and Friends July Event: 7/16/2014  Networking Bingo!

2. Discounts

3. Using our Forum

4. Spam Filter Alert

5. To change you email address

6. Unsubscribe

7. Potential Speakers/Topics

8. Notifying us of upcoming events and discounts.

1. HR Women and Friends July Event: 7/16/2014  Networking Bingo!  Please click on the registration tab for detail and to RSVP.  I hope you're able to attend!

2. Discounts and Offers – view them on our discount page. Thanks to everyone for extending the discounts to our group!

3. We have a Forum at www.ourhrsite.com/forum. I am moving away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  On the Forum, you can view messages without registering. It’s your responsibility to keep track of your user name and password, and if you change email addresses, please log in and update your profile. If privacy is an issue, please be careful when you post anything: use a separate email if necessary and you can skip your street address if you’d like.

4. SPAM Filter Alert: please add mstein@ourhrsite.com to your address book.

5. To change your email address, click here and go to the correct form.

6. Unsubscribe: To discontinue mailings please respond with "UNSUBSCRIBE" in the subject line or go to the form. If you receive mail at more than one email address, please note all addresses to delete.

7. Potential Speakers/Topics. Please see http://ourhrsite.blogspot.com/p/potential-speakers.html for details and a form to submit your information.  This will be reviewed during the January 2015 meeting.

8. Notifying us of upcoming events and discounts. If you email me right after I’ve sent a mailing, I can update the website, but I can’t send a separate mailing to the group. It will be in the next mailing.Because of my commitments I can’t mentor you, and please don’t send me unsolicited resumes. Come to an event and meet someone who can help. I receive a lot of unsolicited resumes (from our group and strangers) and I refer people to our LinkedIn Group. See the blog post for more thoughts. http://marciastein.blogspot.com/2009/02/setting-boundaries-and-professionalism.html

We have a page on our site for advertising with links to Amazon products. Our site also has Google ads, and you're welcome to click on relevant links. These links provide a small amount of money to help pay for our domain.

I hope to see you soon.

All the best,

Marcia

Marcia Stein, PHR - www.linkedin.com/in/marciastein
Author: "Strained Relations: Help for Struggling Parents of Troubled Teens" and "Recruiters on Recruiting"
Blog: http://helpingparentsofteens.blogspot.com/ 

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Silicon Valley Women in HR...& Friends Mailing and Event Announcement

Dear Friends,

How are you?  How's your summer?

If you strictly want information about our next event, please look at the links to the right and go to Event Registration.  Before you go, please check out the links at the bottom of this page. 

Has it occurred to you that we're all salespeople?  Whether you're applying for a job or presenting at a meeting, the product you're selling is yourself.  Your skills, your credibility, your powers of persuasion are all tied in to how you communicate.

Our next speaker is Lynn Kirkham, an inspirational speaker and speaking coach. With 20 years of experience in sales, she has analyzed how people present themselves and how to improve those skills, and her knowledge has benefited herself and her clients.

I heard a science writer on the radio recently, and her communication style undermined her credibility.  She had a habit of ending sentences going up the scale as if she were posing a question, not stating a fact.  I don't know when this became so common, but I hear it a lot, mostly from women.

Are you undermining yourself?  Please join us in a safe environment to learn and work on those important skills.

This is a reminder that I am going to move us away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  This will be a gradual change on the technical side.  More people are using LinkedIn than the forum at this point, and it has been challenging to register people, help them through password problems and other maintenance issues.  It served a great purpose for a long time, and it was all my husband's idea.  Bill is an Electrical Engineer but he learned some code, set up our board, and taught me how to update and maintain it.  Many people have posted resumes, jobs and events over the years, and I know a lot of people found work as a result.  It honestly makes me very happy and proud to know it was so successful.  Thank you, Bill!

Many thanks to Diane Cusano for helping me plan and introduce last month's event with Allison West, Esq., SPHR.  Her topic was "The Bully and the Bottom Line - Understanding and Preventing Workplace Bullying," and she gave us some valuable information, even sending participants copies of her presentation and a sample policy.  Click on the Previous Speakers' link and search for a download of her article.

1. HR Women and Friends June 18 Event - 6/18/2014  “Your Voice, Your Feminine Power, Your Job” with Lynn Kirkham.  

2. Discounts

3. Using our Forum

4. Spam Filter Alert

5. To change you email address

6. Unsubscribe

7. Potential Speakers/Topics

8. Notifying us of upcoming events and discounts.

1. HR Women and Friends June 18 Event - 6/18/2014  “Your Voice, Your Feminine Power, Your Job” with Lynn Kirkham.  Please click on the registration tab for detail and to RSVP.  I hope you're able to attend!

2. Discounts and Offers – view them on our discount page. Thanks to everyone for extending the discounts to our group!

3. We have a Forum at www.ourhrsite.com/forum. I am going to move us away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  On the Forum, you can view messages without registering, but you must register to reply or post a message. You are not automatically registered because you receive this email. Please review the Terms and Conditions available under any topic on the forum. It’s your responsibility to keep track of your user name and password, and if you change email addresses, please log in and update your profile. If privacy is an issue, please be careful when you post anything: use a separate email if necessary and you can skip your street address if you’d like.

4. SPAM Filter Alert: please add mstein@ourhrsite.com to your address book.

5. To change your email address, click here and go to the correct form.

6. Unsubscribe: To discontinue mailings please respond with "UNSUBSCRIBE" in the subject line or go to the form. If you receive mail at more than one email address, please note all addresses to delete.

7. Potential Speakers/Topics. Please see http://ourhrsite.blogspot.com/p/potential-speakers.html for details and a form to submit your information.  This will be reviewed during the January 2015 meeting.

8. Notifying us of upcoming events and discounts. If you email me right after I’ve sent a mailing, I can update the website, but I can’t send a separate mailing to the group. It will be in the next mailing.Because of my commitments I can’t mentor you, and please don’t send me unsolicited resumes. Come to an event and meet someone who can help. I receive a lot of unsolicited resumes (from our group and strangers) and I refer people to the forum at www.ourhrsite.com/forum. See the blog post for more thoughts. http://marciastein.blogspot.com/2009/02/setting-boundaries-and-professionalism.html

We have a page on our site for advertising with links to Amazon products. Our site also has Google ads, and you're welcome to click on relevant links. These links provide a small amount of money to help pay for our domain.

I hope to see you soon.

All the best,

Marcia

Marcia Stein, PHR - www.linkedin.com/in/marciastein
Author: "Strained Relations: Help for Struggling Parents of Troubled Teens" and "Recruiters on Recruiting"
Blog: http://helpingparentsofteens.blogspot.com/ 

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Silicon Valley Women in HR...& Friends Mailing and Event Announcement

Dear Friends,

How are you?  I hope you're well.

If you strictly want information about our next event, please look at the links to the right and go to Event Registration.  Before you go, please check out the links at the bottom of this page. 

Do you have the sense that wherever you turn, there's pressure and anger?  You can see it at work and on the freeway, at job search support groups and on TV and the radio.  People are stressed, and you know what?  It's about to get worse.  Much worse.  We're running up to another election and that seems to bring out the worst on all sides.

Do you remember hearing civil debates?  Seeing that elected representatives can disagree on approaches but still respect others and work with them?  We have had that at times in the past, and we've had the ugly side, as well.

Several years ago, Donna Fedor, a wonderful recruiter and coach, presented to our group.  She said something that was somewhat controversial for me at the time, but as I reflected, I knew she was right.  She said you'll have a lot less stress and be happier if you turn off the news and aggressive programs.

I'm a news hound and look at a variety of sources for information.  And yes, I do read and consider views from the other end of the political spectrum, and sometimes I do find agreement.  I try to limit "opinion" reading as I've seen that even an innocent comment sparks uncomfortable conversations online, and I'm really not up for that.  No post I have will change anyone's mind and angry responses will not change mine, either.

If you're experiencing more stress and maybe anger, try listening to something different.  I've heard that hearing the music you loved as a teen makes you feel better, happier, different, and it's very true for me.  So pump up the music, Friends!

This is a reminder that I am going to move us away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  This will be a gradual change on the technical side.  More people are using LinkedIn than the forum at this point, and it has been challenging to register people, help them through password problems and other maintenance issues.  It served a great purpose for a long time, and it was all my husband's idea.  Bill is an Electrical Engineer but he learned some code, set up our board, and taught me how to update and maintain it.  Many people have posted resumes, jobs and events over the years, and I know a lot of people found work as a result.  It honestly makes me very happy and proud to know it was so successful.  Thank you, Bill!

Many thanks to Christine Young and Belina Pignataro for planning last month's event with Jane Kow.  She presented "Accommodating and Disciplining Employees with Medical Conditions."  Click on the Previous Speakers' link and search for a download of her handout.

1. HR Women and Friends May 21 Community Event - 5/21/2014  "The Bully and the Bottom Line - Understanding and Preventing Workplace Bullying" with Allison West, Esq., SPHR.  

2. Discounts
3. Using our Forum
4. Spam Filter Alert
5. To change you email address
6. Unsubscribe
7. Potential Speakers/Topics
8. Notifying us of upcoming events and discounts.

1. HR Women and Friends May 21 Community Event - 5/21/2014  "The Bully and the Bottom Line - Understanding and Preventing Workplace Bullying" with Allison West, Esq., SPHR.  Please click on the registration tab for detail and to RSVP.  I hope you're able to attend!

2. Discounts and Offers – view them on our discount page. Thanks to everyone for extending the discounts to our group!

3. We have a Forum at www.ourhrsite.com/forum. I am going to move us away from maintaining the Forum and encourage you to use our LinkedIn Group for posting.  On the Forum, you can view messages without registering, but you must register to reply or post a message. You are not automatically registered because you receive this email. Please review the Terms and Conditions available under any topic on the forum. It’s your responsibility to keep track of your user name and password, and if you change email addresses, please log in and update your profile. If privacy is an issue, please be careful when you post anything: use a separate email if necessary and you can skip your street address if you’d like.

4. SPAM Filter Alert: please add mstein@ourhrsite.com to your address book.

5. To change your email address, click here and go to the correct form.

6. Unsubscribe: To discontinue mailings please respond with "UNSUBSCRIBE" in the subject line or go to the form. If you receive mail at more than one email address, please note all addresses to delete.

7. Potential Speakers/Topics. Please see http://ourhrsite.blogspot.com/p/potential-speakers.html for details and a form to submit your information.  This will be reviewed during the January 2015 meeting.

8. Notifying us of upcoming events and discounts. If you email me right after I’ve sent a mailing, I can update the website, but I can’t send a separate mailing to the group. It will be in the next mailing.Because of my commitments I can’t mentor you, and please don’t send me unsolicited resumes. Come to an event and meet someone who can help. I receive a lot of unsolicited resumes (from our group and strangers) and I refer people to the forum at www.ourhrsite.com/forum. See the blog post for more thoughts. http://marciastein.blogspot.com/2009/02/setting-boundaries-and-professionalism.html

We have a page on our site for advertising with links to Amazon products. Our site also has Google ads, and you're welcome to click on relevant links. These links provide a small amount of money to help pay for our domain.

I hope to see you soon.

All the best,

Marcia

Marcia Stein, PHR - www.linkedin.com/in/marciastein
Author: "Strained Relations: Help for Struggling Parents of Troubled Teens" and "Recruiters on Recruiting"
Blog: http://helpingparentsofteens.blogspot.com/ 

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